FRIEND VS. FRENEMY

"FRIENDS" how many of us have them, "FRIENDS" ones you can depend on.....let's be FRIENDS"! Lately, I have noticed how friends are used and abused by "FRENEMIES" some people come around with smiles and what appears to be BEST WISHES but on the flip side there are cruel intentions IN PLAY all along! I don't understand how people can WASTE TIME befriending a person they know deep down inside they don't like, what is the point....oh to put them on BLAST & EXPOSE THEM. Hmmmm I've never had that much FREE TIME! And I find it quiet ridiculous that people can't find anything better to do than try to ruin the next person's REPUTATION.

 A friendship is based on TRUST, UNDERSTANDING, COMMON INTEREST & ADMIRATION for another. I pray that this foolishness will HIT ROCK BOTTOM and people will practice being TRUE FRIENDS..... because it makes it hard for people to meet and connect with NEW people who could possibley MAKE A DIFFERENCE in their life. If you've ever been BURNED by a "FRENEMY" don't become BITTER AND MAD at the world because of a failed friendship because then that person WON! Instead take it as a lesson learned, continue to be the SHINING STAR that you are and next time proceed with caution when you meet an OVERLY EAGER person with a ton of questions about your life, that don't contribute anything to the conversation personally but is fully tuned into to every aspect of your life! *WARNING SIGN* this person is showing you I am going to have my FACTS STRAIGHT and when I put you on BLAST, I will have the proof I need to validate and assisnate your REPUTATION! SMH at these SCANDOLOUS, NO LIFE MAGGOTS! And also BEWARE of those that come around with their handout like you owe it to them to get them out of a situation, pay their way, or put their needs before your own. A friend is not a BURDEN.  A friend is going to to tell you the TRUTH and won't make you feel uncomfortable when you say NO. A TRUE FRIEND feels like FAMILY. CHERISH YOUR FRIENDS.....AND SHINE ON YOUR FRENEMIES!

*this blog is in no way directed towards anyone in particular, the topic comes from years of observations and conversations with people who have SURVIVED A FRENEMY* If you haven't experienced a FRENEMY consider yourself BLESSED!